Ok, so on to more important stuff. My sister's wedding really was the most romantic, cozy, classy wedding. It wasn't outrageous or lavish. Totally proved it does not take thousands of dollars spent on unncessary wedding extravagence to create the most memorable wedding. And I thought I was the crafty/artsy one in the family! My sister really proved that wrong because about 75% of everything for her wedding were her ideas and DIY's. From the mailbox letters/postcards escort card idea to her arrangement of flowers and to the s'mores fireplace and lounge area - everything was just perfect. And these are all not very costly things but they're more meaningful than any extravagent wedding ideas.
Here are some pictures ap took. My favorite part of the night was dancing with my mom and aunt and watching all extended family members there having fun, laughing and dancing. We rarely get to see each other so it was wonderful. Having gone through some tough times recently with the passing of my uncle, seeing everyone there to share our love for each other after everything was so heart warming. Oh, and I cannot even begin to explain how wonderful my new brother-in-law's family is. I can hang out with them everyday - they're so fun!!
The Bride holding back her tears...
My favorite woman...
Our bm dresses actually turned out really pretty. It definitely did not look like this in the beginning....I could write a novel about the story behind this dress but I won't bore you. Don't you love how each dress' straps are different? Of course, you can only imagine how long it took me to decide which of the 3 I wanted knowing how indecisive I am. I must have asked everybody I knew for their opinion including ap who seriously thought they all looked exactly alike.
The guests found their personalized letter the Bride/Groom wrote by hand individually which also showed where they were seated. How thoughtful and cute is that! And these cards/letters were on adorable paper.
My sister totally broke away from the traditional table setting and flower arrangements by having long rectangular tables with ceramic bowls/cups with floating candles and flowers. It is so much prettier and cost efficient than the traditional centerpieces we're used to seeing. 
Me & the beautiful sis/Bride. 
And finally...the highlight of the night was dancing with my aunt...in fact she danced with everyone whether she knew you or not. I don't know where she gets her energy! I refuse to believe she and my mom are 60. My aunt doesn't dance like 60 for sure! And there is Yumi enjoying her mom's dance with me. :) Speaking of energy, I am getting old...I was so tired by 9pm. The Bride/Groom and their friends went out to downtown LA to continue the festivities....and they're older than me! But in my defense, I woke up 1 hour earlier than the rest of the girls because I had to "tame" my hair for the makeup/hair girl. Uuugh my hair!!!
Sorry for the long post! I had more fun than my own wedding...is that allowed? But I really did because 1) I didn't drink (just 1 beer) & still had fun 2) I was relaxed 3) I could actually remember the day/night 4) family's presence and love were felt more than ever.Now...if only the other sister can be convinced to take the plunge.
